Our Money, Our Right to Decide
Guide to Leaving a Financially Abusive Partner
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About Me

I'm a divorced, single mom who is passionate about feminism and fashion.


Part-blog, part-magazine, this site exists to be a community where women like me - divorced, feminists, or women who love fashion - can come together and share our loves.


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February 27, 2019

In this week’s post I’m going to dissect a common aspect of financial abuse – jeopardizing a woman’s employment.

Without a job, it’s damned hard for a woman to leave an abusive man. The number one reason that women cite for going back to abusive men is money. They can’t...

July 31, 2018

Another workday came to an end.  No sooner had I sat in the car than on turned the waterworks.  Again? Why?

We immigrated to America when I was seventeen.  Having stayed through the revolution and Iran/Iraq war, the only reason my parents uprooted our lives wa...

July 28, 2018

Conducting an interview. 

When I got my first internship as a journalist, I panicked about what I was going to wear. Years earlier, when I worked in a law office, I’d learned that it was unacceptable for women to dress how I chose to express myself. Or, rather, to dress...

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