Our Money, Our Right to Decide
Guide to Leaving a Financially Abusive Partner
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About Me

I'm a divorced, single mom who is passionate about feminism and fashion.


Part-blog, part-magazine, this site exists to be a community where women like me - divorced, feminists, or women who love fashion - can come together and share our loves.


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February 27, 2019

In this week’s post I’m going to dissect a common aspect of financial abuse – jeopardizing a woman’s employment.

Without a job, it’s damned hard for a woman to leave an abusive man. The number one reason that women cite for going back to abusive men is money. They can’t...

February 3, 2019

Today is the ten-year anniversary of my mother’s death. Grief ebbs and flows. While I rarely go a day without thinking about her, the pain isn’t as sharp as it was at first. Except on certain days.

I’ve been in a foul mood the last week, so I apologize to anyone who had...

January 13, 2019

Okay. *takes deep breath* This is going to be a tough post to write, and I want to put some trigger warnings on it. Mainly – trigger warnings around attempted rape and sexual assault.

The past month a half of 2018 weren’t great for my mental health. I know a few friends...

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