Our Money, Our Right to Decide
Guide to Leaving a Financially Abusive Partner
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About Me

I'm a divorced, single mom who is passionate about feminism and fashion.


Part-blog, part-magazine, this site exists to be a community where women like me - divorced, feminists, or women who love fashion - can come together and share our loves.


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February 27, 2019

In this week’s post I’m going to dissect a common aspect of financial abuse – jeopardizing a woman’s employment.

Without a job, it’s damned hard for a woman to leave an abusive man. The number one reason that women cite for going back to abusive men is money. They can’t...

February 3, 2019

Today is the ten-year anniversary of my mother’s death. Grief ebbs and flows. While I rarely go a day without thinking about her, the pain isn’t as sharp as it was at first. Except on certain days.

I’ve been in a foul mood the last week, so I apologize to anyone who had...

January 20, 2019

Trigger warning for discussions of sexual assault and rape. And if frankness about hand jobs bothers you, you might want to skip this post.

Women are accustomed to making sexual trade-offs in life, but we don’t talk about them much. This is better than that. I’d rather...

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